Is your future or current relationship in emotional attachment phase?

Posted: April 21, 2015 in Dating, love, Relationships
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Dead obvious when she don’t digg you. She don’t like your stuff anymore on Facebook, you initiate contact all the time. You are the one asking to hang out. I like the loyalties of a girl who asks and pushes to hang out more than the one I have had issues setting the date up.

Do you sound like your complaining in your requests?
Never mention how busy she has told you she has been.
Why haven’t you been busy? Build up your life with stories and adventures to share. US males need to not be so needy in our requests of women we barely know.

Stop looking past things just because her attractiveness is overpowering…

But if you notice you know so much about her and she knows very little about you or she has much to vent…. she’s not into you. She is into herself and not looking for a true connection with a human. Would you hang out if she was a guy?

Physical attraction is a huge part, but once you get used to being around that attractive person… we find out what we don’t have in common more then we do, if we let our eyes lead. Some of the best potential partnerships have been a true friend first.

The peacock reminds us not take life so seriously, including beauty.

Some of us guys tend to storm the beach whenever we land our battleships….

Best thing I have found is to run tests and look for the red flags… don’t ignore them…

Don’t message her until she messaged you this could go on for weeks.

Try to tell her a story…. see if you can finish it without interruption.

Do you like more things about her then she does about you?

Facebook chats and texts short sweet and to the point.

When your self-esteem starts to suffer for it

When you start to think you are going crazy about the whole situation

If you’re wondering if you should stop pursuing her, it’s probably time.

This comes down to an issue of having healthy boundaries. Boundaries are emotional markers that clearly define where one person ends, and the other person begins—the health and happiness of one person is not determined by the other. With healthy boundaries you are free to be yourself, and not feel like your happiness is dependent on what another person thinks about you. This makes you confident and allows you to be comfortable around other people and develop healthy relationships.

I appreciate a girl who shuts down an advancements as soon as it gets started. Keeps the guys heart from being improperly invested. US males invest our hearts to fast. Help us not do that to our selves and just be our friend sometimes. But if we can’t get past our attachments, we will never truly be happy with what we think makes us happy. I feel like a stalker when I have to beg for attention or steal it..

Please comment, I would love to adjust or experience a different perspective. Very open

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